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The Light of Your Own Splendor

Sometimes people suffer so much incredible pain and trauma that they curl up in a ball within themselves and wish to be anywhere than where they are. Many times they stay embedded in that position until they can be coaxed out with extreme kindness. It is a process. If you know someone who is annoying, seems cold, is indifferent, doesn’t try, is clueless, and a project to be around, please be kind to them. Some are just hanging on to the illusion of being normal. Some people are so numb from trauma and abandonment. Some people are so covered in emotional scars that it restricts their movement. Send love to every soul that has been crushed and broken, used and defiled and abused beyond recognition. Pour a balm of love into every cracked vessel and love them to wholeness. Encourage every soul out of the hole of their own indifference and dance with them into the light of their own splendor.

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Releasing Oppression

I recently had a private remote session with a woman who felt like a very clear soul. I usually get a sense of all the issues mingled into a person’s energy field. With her, it was much different. She felt very clear but also restricted. I described the feeling to her and she said that it was how she felt. It felt like she was laying on her back and someone had a gigantic thumb pressed into her chest. The fact that I felt what she had trouble articulating until then was very validating to her. It felt like this feeling had been with her through so many of her incarnations that it felt normal. How it manifested in this lifetime was that she had an overwhelming awareness of the lack of control that society seems to have. To her, society seemed to be at the mercy of a malevolent force. Actually this was her personal issue from many lifetimes ago. I saw the core lifetime. She was some kind of bug or small creature and someone toyed with her. She was their captured plaything. When we went through the taps that her energy told me would free her, she had the […]

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Technique to Speed Recovery Time

When we feel pain, have problems or are sick, our natural tendency is to shut down our energy. We close it down naturally and curl up in a ball. We introvert, feel sorry for ourselves and focus on the issue. This delays recovery time. The way to get over whatever we are going through more quickly is to keep our energy field open as much as possible. Rest; yes. Take care of yourself; yes. But do it in a positive manner. Instead of lamenting about whatever is happening, see this as the Universe sending a message; giving a hint about the present course of action or helping you shift your priorities slightly. When we can see what ever comes as a blessing, we remain fluid. We are a pipeline of divine love. Gratitude, acceptance, and flexibility keep the love flowing. Complaining, over reacting, and focusing on the issue, close down the pipeline. Our well-being depends on being as fluid as possible. This takes some self-discipline to shift our focus and practice the spiritual law of silence. The result is well worth the work.

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Choosing to Re-live Trauma

When we talk about, or even think about an unpleasant event or tragedy, we are trapped in that event. If it involves others then we are trapping them in that event as well. If there is an unpleasant incident relating to interactions with others and we talk about it, we are reconnecting ourselves to those people. This is true with our pets as well. So many people want to relive their pet’s illness or how they suffered before they have come to this blessing of a good life with them. But the person doesn’t realize they are holding their pet trapped in the experience by talking about it. I have watched so many sweet dogs, let out a heavy sign as they have to relive, once again, how emaciated, scared, or broken the were. They hear it again and again. Change it by letting go of the story and always being in a loving moment with them. Maybe if we catch ourselves doing it to our pet, we can catch ourselves from doing the same thing to ourselves.

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Release Shutting Down Your Own Joy

I have a friend who hasn’t been very much fun to be around. She has only wanted to do things that she enjoys doing and when someone else wants to do something or go somewhere different, she refuses. She gets anxious to get home. She has never enjoyed going to events and she treats every occasion as something to dread. As kind as she is, the relationship has been one-sided and devoid of spontaneity and joy. We recently got to the root of the matter. I wanted her to spend the afternoon with me. I just blurted out. You don’t have to be afraid to die, we are just going shopping. She started crying at that statement and continued until I picked her up. When I arrived at her house. I saw images of one of her past lives that was affecting her joy in this life. Multiple images overlaid the one that I was seeing vividly. This showed that the trauma was ingrained and reinforced in many lifetimes. What happens is there is a small transgression to a part of the body or psyche and that part becomes vulnerable to similar transgressions in different scenarios. For example, if I see […]

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