Taps:  A Couple’s Session

Taps: A Couple’s Session

Recently I facilitated a session for a couple who are both separately, regular clients. It is during the couple’s sessions that my sensitivities come in most handy. There are things that people may want to convey to each other but are either unable or unwilling to articulate them.

Before the session, I knew that the husband was harboring resentment. I could feel it and I knew that the wife wanted the session because she was feeling frustrated and unsupported. People don’t understand how much they communicate with the voice. Both the husband and wife were conveying a lot of information to each other through the tone and the syntax that was not consistent with what they were saying in words. I could hear it right away in their voices.

With her words she was saying, “Sure, take all the space you need. I am confident, loving and supportive”. But with her tone she was saying, “I feel insecure and needy. Please validate me with attention”. This really irritated him and was part of the reason he thought he was being so noble in putting up with it.

In words he was saying , “I am just in need of alone time”. In his tone he was saying many different things. It had a strong strains of arrogance and contempt, which he wasn’t aware of. His voice was not only irritating her, but was cruel and smug. This undercurrent was the more real dynamics than the facade of the words they were saying.

In their first couple session, we addressed how irritating her voice was to him. We combed out a lot of the irritation tones in her voice. The husband was very grateful and relieved. Although it was painful for the woman to know the truth, it was a relief to realize that there was something that he was indeed reacting to in her even though he denied it their whole marriage. This poor woman was feeling innately flawed her whole marriage and she finally got vindication in knowing she was not overreacting and imagining his behavior. He was indeed avoiding her many times because her voice conveyed characteristics that were revolting to him.

He thought he was being a great guy; the noble prince; by martyring himself to this unbearable fate. He loved his wife but he felt his sacrifice was great. He did not realize that he was telling her exactly how he felt with his tone. There was mocking, superiority, anger, contempt, frustration in his everyday tone. During our second session we stripped out a lot of the issues from both of their voices.

He knew from their first session that we were able to change her voice tone so it wasn’t so irritating to him. That was a prelude to his voice tone being stripped of all the belittling undertones. The way I did this is I led him through taps to strip out the anger and other emotions from his sound frequency but it also took a bit of calling him on it and showing both of them when I heard the arrogance, anger etc. and have him say it again without those tones.

In some sessions my voice is real sharp and many clients confuse it with me being angry with them. I never am. I am using my sharp voice to “cut away” undesirable things from their sound. For some people it is necessary. So in helping this man change his “tune”, I was showing him how to be more conscious of what he was saying and align the undertone with what he thought he was conveying with his actions.

I explained to him how to be deliberate with each word. Instead of worrying about what came next (doing this allowed the mind to be in charge and convey it’s hidden agenda) to focus on putting loving intention into each syllable. Between this and walking him through some taps, his wife could actually hear a shift in his voice. By the end of the very long session, his wife and I were both able to hear loving tones in his voice. Not only did she get validation for all the times she felt something was wrong and he denied it, she could finally hear love in his voice. The shift was literally miraculous.

Here are some taps to clear out unattractive undertones from one’s voice.

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Say each statement out-loud three times while continuously tapping on the top of your head, and say it a fourth time while continuously tapping on your chest.

Don’t skip any because you don’t think they apply to you. The ones you want to skip are the ones you need to do.

“I remove all anger from my sound frequency; in all moments”

“I release resonating with anger; in all moments”

“I infuse Love into my sound frequency; in all moments”

“I remove all need from my sound frequency; in all moments”

“I release resonating with need; in all moments”

“I infuse contentment into my sound frequency; in all moments”

“I remove all superiority from my sound frequency; in all moments”

“I release resonating with superiority; in all moments”

“I infuse Humility into my sound frequency; in all moments”

“I remove all desperation from my sound frequency; in all moments”

“I release resonating with desperation; in all moments”

“I infuse confidence into my sound frequency; in all moments”

“I remove all depression from my sound frequency; in all moments”

“I release resonating with depression; in all moments”

“I infuse Joy into my sound frequency; in all moments”

“I remove all jealousy from my sound frequency; in all moments”

“I release resonating with jealousy; in all moments”

“I infuse trust into my sound frequency; in all moments”

To get an understanding of the subtle messages that are conveyed in the voice is a great tool for couples. When they are interacting, one can now calmly say to the other,” I hear jealousy in your voice”. That person can now do the taps to address it. Just the simple act of acknowledging these things and validating someone’s point of view with the taps is HUGE. Also, there is nothing more attractive than a person that has a loving caliber in their speech.

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Taps:  Transcending the Pathetic Need to Get Married

Taps: Transcending the Pathetic Need to Get Married

I had an inner experience last night. I was a surrogate for female energy everywhere in absorbing this lesson. In the Dream I lived on the top floor of this unconventional building. (symbolizes higher consciousness) Even though, I had a peaceful happy loving home, I still wanted to get married. So I arranged to get married to this guy I didn’t know. (settling)
Both sides of the family were going to get together to meet before the wedding (creating karmic situations that were not necessary) I was happy to be the subject of the gathering even though the family members coming were people I have not seen in years and had already ran through all the karmic experiences I needed with them. (reactivating karmic relationships out of habit)
I had my dress and all my pretty garbs for the wedding ( ego stroking used to keep us enslaved) I had to move out of my peaceful home and give it to this guy so is an overly self-confident leader of a local spiritual group ( allowing male energy to take over) I lost my standing and momentum of being spiritual equal to male energy, simply to enslave myself through marriage.
I met the father in law who was pretty crass and unfeeling. He had with him a small pony and some performing dogs. (the marriage was a dog and pony show) I met the groom at the party. He was attracted to me but didn’t have the emotional maturity to show it. He ignored me but showed approval by leering glances. He drank too much and was a compilation of every guy who abused me in this life. Since he ignored me, I did what I had done in this life; I made it easy for him. I got close to him and tried to arouse him.
(settling for crumbs)
I knew that the marriage was going to be awful. I knew he was not capable of appreciating me. I knew I would be unhappy. But in the dream I was going to go through with the marriage because I didn’t want to inconvenience the people who were attending. And I really wanted to have a marriage and a wedding. The desire to be married was so strong that it overrode my common sense and all my gut feelings. I was heading into a miserable existence simply to be married.

Want to know what SFT (Spiritual Freedom Technique) Taps Are? Click Here!

Say each statement out-loud three times while continuously tapping on the top of your head, and say it a fourth time while continuously tapping on your chest.

Don’t skip any because you don’t think they apply to you. The ones you want to skip are the ones you need to do.

“I dissipate the psychic energy that draws people into marriage; in all moments.”
“I release the desperate need to be married; in all moments.”
“I release throwing away my happiness and empowerment just to be married; in all moments.”
“I release sacrificing myself to an unworthy outcome; in all moments.”
“I release the desperate need to be married; in all moments.”
“Ii am centered and empowered through maintaining my individuality; in all moments.”
“I make space in this world to find a worthy life partner; in all moments.”
“I remove all blockages to finding a worthy life partner; in all moments.”
“I am centered and empowered in finding a worthy life partner; in all moments.”
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Mind Blowing Love

Mind Blowing Love

 
Yesterday’s group call was so amazing!  I closed my eyes, really tuned into everyone’s voices and energy and I felt as though I was transported back to the room we were in at Woodcliff, with all those beautiful souls I have known through many, many life times.  Thank you Jen for bringing us together in May, and for the refresher yesterday.
 
Some things Jen said during the call stuck with me, and I could not get them out of my head.  I have never really parented with boundaries.  I don’t strictly enforce times such as wake up time, when we eat, or when bed time is, etc. This isn’t necessarily the best approach, I know.
 
What I realize now that I am working with Jen is, I have fought making official times for all those things because deep down I knew that when we force our kids to be too linear – get up at a certain time, eat every day at a certain time, go to bed at a certain time, etc. – it prevents them from exploring their exponentiality.  When we rush them from this thing to that – just like Jen was talking about when we book appointments back to back, it’s making them conform to linear existence.  Some people think kids thrive on structure.  It doesn’t appeal to me, and that’s probably because I am not linear.  We can have a tendency to rush our kids through life.  In being so regimented, we too as parents can miss the beautiful experiences that could happen if we were not so fixated on linear existence.
 
This refresher session was also a big break through to me in terms of many of my relationships that I have struggled with.
 
I can fully accept that others are not exponential…it’s nice to finally have words to describe what makes you different.  However, to others, if sometimes feels you are not linear, you are wrong.  I have spent too much time in my life being told I am wrong.  I exert way too much effort trying to deal energetically with anger and tension from people who think they are always right and their way of doing things or seeing things is right.  Working with Jen is helping me to free myself from the need for validation from others, because I realize I am not going to get it from people operating in a linear reality.  The denial of validation from them is not malicious, we are just operating differently in energy.
 
It is mind-blowing and so freeing to experience the love I do working with Jen, and it is even more powerful and life changing to continue to feel the love and the deep sense of connection that I did in May at the retreat Jen facilitated.  To think we will all come together again, be interconnected with other souls and keep repairing and restoring one another and humanity!  Jen, your work is amazing and life changing!
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SFT Taps: Free Both Parties in a Relationship

I really don’t know how to explain these taps. They came through when I worked with a client who holds the highest intention for humanity. She is so open minded but her husband was less so. It felt like on some abstract level in the imagination that he was trapped in this prism of power. That is the words that came through that resonated with my client. Before the session, she was feeling that we would need to do some taps to help him. But it is impossible for me to interfere in someone’s psychic space.

When two people are energetically joined as in marriage or being intimate, they share space. It felt like her husband being trapped in a prism of power was her business. Because they share space, she is able to do taps, in the “we” vernacular to help free him of the prism of power. These taps seemed very powerful to her. The visuals that I saw were souls being trapped in something that looked like the death star from the star wars saga. Also, people give their permission in energy when they may not give it in words. Anyone who is praying for help, is usually giving permission.

As she was performing these taps to save her husband, it felt like she was literally pulling him out of this dark orb. What was interesting is the image I had of him. In this life he is a fireman. He saves people from dark burning buildings. It felt like, on some abstract level, he chose this profession to work out a deep unconscious need to save himself and others from this prism of power. I also wonder if people who have been to war, would benefit from these taps as well.

These are the taps:

You can also do them as a surrogate for humanity by saying this tap before you start:

“I declare myself a surrogate for humanity in doing these taps; in all moments”

Want to know what SFT (Spiritual Freedom Technique) Taps Are? Click Here!

Say each statement out-loud three times while continuously tapping on the top of your head, and say it a fourth time while continuously tapping on your chest.

Don’t skip any because you don’t think they apply to you. The ones you want to skip are the ones you need to do.

“We release being trapped in all prisms of power in all moments”
“We release being diminished by all prism of powers in all moments”
“We release being rendered helpless by all prisms of power in all moments”
“We release being enslaved by all prisms of power in all moments”
“We release being manipulated by all prisms of power; in all moments”
“We recant all vows and agreements between ourselves and all prisms of power in all moments”
“We remove all curses between ourselves and all prisms of power; in all moments”
“We dissolve all karmic ties between ourselves and all prisms of power; in all moments”
“We sever all cords and connections between ourselves and all prisms of power; in all moments”
“We withdraw all our energy from all prisms of power; in all moments”
“We shatter a prisms of power; in all moments”
“We free all souls that we have trapped in all prisms of power; in all moments”
“We remove all the fear, pain, burden, limitations, engrams, cords and ties and control devises that all prisms of power have put on us in all moments”
“We remove all the fear, pain, burden, limitations, engrams, cords and ties and control devises that we have put on all others, for all prisms of power in all moments”
“We take back all the Joy, Love, Abundance, Freedom, Health, Success, Security, Companionship, Creativity, Peace, Life, Wholeness, Beauty, Enthusiasm,
Contentment, Confidence, Light, Music, Spirituality and Enlightenment that all
prisms of power have taken from us; in all moments”
“We give back all the Joy, Love, Abundance, Freedom, Health, Success, Security, Companionship, Creativity, Peace, Life, Wholeness, Beauty, Enthusiasm,
Contentment, Confidence, Light, Music, Spirituality and Enlightenment that we have taken from all others for all prisms of power; in all moments”
“We release resonating with all prisms of power in all moments”
“We release emanating with all prisms of power in all moments”
“We remove all prisms of power from our sound frequency in all moments”
“We remove all prisms of power from our light body in all moments”.
“We shift our paradigm from all prisms of power to Joy, Love, Abundance, Freedom, Health, Success, Security, Companionship, Creativity, Peace, Life, Wholeness, Beauty, Enthusiasm, Contentment, Confidence, Light, Music, Spirituality and Enlightenment; in all moments”
“We transcend all prisms of power in all moments”
“We collapse and dissolve all prisms of power; in all moments”
.”We repair and fortify our Wei Chi; in all moments”
“We are centered imbued and empowered in Divine Light, Love and Music; in all moments”

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