Some people spend their whole life being a bully. Some people spend their whole life being a victim. Both experiences are extremes of the same issue, which is; how to be empowered without overpowering others and how to live in peace without being trampled. Learning to overcome being a bully or a victim is coming to terms with the conditions that created either extreme in us.
We attract these experiences so we learn to toggle between bully and victim; this is the razor’s edge of personal balance that is a precursor to Spiritual Mastership. A person is a bully because they feel weak inside and are terrified of being violated. Their ego assists them in creating the illusion of overpowering strength to protect them.
A victim is a very strong person who has seen the abuse of power too many times and so they CHOOSE to roll over and take abuse rather than risk any harm to others. To cause the pain of another is excruciating. It is so very much easier to take all that life can dish out. They may have forgotten how powerful or how empathic they are because the ills of the world imploded on them making them forget it was a choice. It may take several lifetimes to recover from such things.
It is good if someone can see the bully and victim in themselves and are fortunate to see it play out in their family. When the Universe brings it so literally close to our home, it means that we are ready to conquer both experiences, We are tired of watching the play of these two dichotomies and are ready to be empowered and free.
Here are some EFT taps to assist in transcending these two experiences:
(Say each statement three times while tapping on the head, and say it a fourth time while tapping on your chest.)
I release the trauma of killing others, in all lifetimes.
I release the fear of abusing power, in all lifetimes.
I release the trauma of being raped, in all lifetimes
I release the devastation of war, in all lifetimes.
I release using power to protect myself, in all lifetimes.
I release treating others as enemies, in all lifetimes.
I recant all vows and agreements between myself and power, in all lifetimes.
I release destroying innocence, in all lifetimes.
I release the trauma of seeing innocence destroyed, in all lifetimes.
I remove all curses between myself and power, in all lifetimes.
I dissolve all karmic ties between myself and power, in all lifetimes.
I remove all the pain burden and limitations that power has put on me, in all lifetimes.
I take back all the Joy, Love, Abundance, Freedom and Wholeness that power has taken from me, in all lifetimes.
I remove all unnecessary masks, walls and armor that power has put on me, in all lifetimes.
I release choosing power over Love, in all lifetimes.
I shift my paradigm from power to Joy, Love, Abundance, Freedom and Wholeness, in all lifetimes.