Who you are exactly serves you. If you are not beautiful, being beautiful may have brought you the wrong attention in a past life. If you are not rich, you may have strong opinions about the poor or beliefs to be molded. All our experiences are ways to give us life from every vantage point and every spectrum.
If you abused power in a past, you will learn what it feels like to feel powerless. Everyone will come to compassion for all through their experiences.
Technique: When there is something to which you feel a strong aversion; know there is something in that experience that is a learning tool for you. Look at the culture and activities that you dislike and dig into them to recognize why you don’t like them. It may uncover some of your past life aversions that are holding you back.