Either you know yourself to be a divine spark of God with freedom of choice or a breathing piece of matter that’s a victim of circumstance. Decide who you are. If you are a victim of circumstance then everyone else is a victim of circumstance as well. We are all made of the same stuff. But if you see the greatness in others, you must recognize greatness in yourself. If you then recognize greatness in yourself by default, you must take ownership of it.
Everything is energy work. Everything matters. Everything deserves attention and reverence. If you can show reverence doing the most mundane or unpleasant task, you are good the rest of the time. Showing reverence when you are doing something unpleasant resets your inner compass to love and respect for all life.