There is no need to demonize others as a means to validate our stance. Others don’t need to be bad to support the fact that we are good. Others don’t have to be the perpetrators in our life experience. It takes a lot of energy to build a case against someone else and endurance to maintain that conviction.
How about this: everyone is right from their point of view. Everyone is just trying to do the best they can at being them. Knowing how difficult life has been for us sometimes, may give us the compassion to know that others struggle too. Connect with others, if you must, in that place of knowing what it feels like to be misunderstood.
We are all struggling in some way; every single one of us, in some way or another and in varying degrees. If it is the only commonality that is available, use that to connect with every other being. Connecting to others in this way could be your conduit to a more peaceful sense of being.