There are two reasons to be jealous. The first reason is on some level, we realize that our present mate isn’t our soul mate. We realize they will be leaving us at some point and we aren’t ready for that. We take ourselves out of the moment and live in a perpetual state of break up.
The other reason we become jealous is because we are reliving a past experience of losing a dear love. We play it over and over in our subliminal energy field. The Love that we are enjoying shares close quarters with a painful memory of loss. Jealousy is a private excruciating hell of various degrees.
Here are some taps to alleviate the angst:
(Say each statement three times while tapping on your head and say it a fourth time while tapping on your chest.)
I release the anguish of being separated from my Love, in all lifetimes.
I release the fear and trauma of my Love leaving me, in all lifetimes.
I release being frozen in abandonment, in all lifetimes.
I release confusing Love with competition in all lifetimes.
I release competing for love, in all lifetimes.
I release seeing other women/men as the enemy, in all lifetimes.
I release feeling lonely and desperate in relationships, in all lifetimes.
I release pulling my Love into a lonely and desperate place, in all lifetimes.
I release defining Love as emptiness and need, in all lifetimes.
I release having relationships pull me into a void, in all lifetimes.
I redefine relationships as fullness and completion, in all lifetimes.
I shift the paradigm of my relationship from taking to giving, in all lifetimes.
I release being jealous in all lifetimes.
I shift my paradigm from jealousy to peace in all lifetimes.
My relationship is centered in Joy, Love, Abundance, Freedom, Peace, Contentment, and Wholeness, in all lifetimes.
I am totally centered in the moment, in all lifetimes.
I have a dear friend whose Soul Mate crossed over. Every day a hawk flew over her house and called to her. She felt it was her husband reminding her of their Love. It was very comforting to her and she had many dream experiences with them together.
One day she called me very upset. There were two hawks together. In her grief she thought that her husband had moved on and she was in excruciating pain. Because of jealousy she failed to realize that she was the second hawk. She was being shown that she was still with her husband in the higher reams. It was only in the physical that she was experiencing separation. But on all other levels, they were still together.