When one has an issue, they many times think in the worse case scenario. Even when someone is deciding whether they are coming down with a flu or something, they have to ruminate over the signs before they validate themselves by tell others they are sick.
Then they feel the need to defend those issues. They don’t want to sound ridiculous so they build up a case for being sick. They are in a sense coming to agreement with the illness. Then they identify with it in a sense by defending their need t nurture themselves by having it.
Being sick is a chance to opt out for a bit. It is an excuse to stay home, relinquish the diet, forgo the work load, spoil one’s self, relax, take a break, focus on themselves, feel important, be the center of attention, ask for help, surrender to life, allow others to help and change priorities. Because people are used to invalidating themselves otherwise, being sick is their chance to get fulfillment; at first.
But then the novelty rubs off and the patient feels they have to return to ‘the grind” or up the ante on their illness. It is sad to think how many people up the ante. It is one of the main reasons dis-ease is so prevalent in society.
Here is a better way: take a day off, go off the diet once in a while, spoil yourself, leave work at the office, be the center of attention, accept help, ask for help, change priorities, have fun, return to joy, return to ease. Create it! Demand it! Revel in it. What the human can endure is limited but what the human spirit can tap into is infinite.
Here are also some EFT taps to help:
(Say each statement three times while tapping on your head and say it a fourth time while tapping on your chest.)
I release validating myself through illness; in all lifetimes.
I release using illness to relate to others; in all lifetimes (this may happen in genetic diseases).
I release my genetic propensity for disease; in all lifetimes.
I release carrying illness in my DNA; in all lifetimes.
I release using illness to feel special; in all lifetimes.
I release using illness as a common ground; in all lifetimes.
I release being in agreement with illness; in all lifetimes.
I remove being cursed with illness; in all lifetimes.
I dissolve all karmic ties with illness; in all lifetimes.
I remove all the pain, burden and limitations that illness has put n me; in all lifetimes.
I take back all the joy, love, abundance and freedom that illness has taken from me; in all lifetimes.
I release resonating with illness; in all lifetimes.
I release all illness from my sound frequency; in all lifetimes.
I shift my paradigm from illness to joy, love, abundance and freedom; in all lifetimes.
Let’s return to Joy, Love, Abundance and Freedom. Those are birthrights work striving for and what every loving parent wishes for their baby. You deserve a wonderful existence.