I recently had a private session where the client had many health concerns. The first issue that showed up, in looking through the pictures of their life, was the issue that they were not being listened to. When I mentioned this, he didn’t think it was an issue at first but then he started to think back to all the times when he was dismissed and realized it was an issue.
In his past lives, I saw layers of lifetimes where he was considered so ill, that the only time he was listened to, was when he had another devastating symptom. I saw a particular lifetime where he was a child in an affluent family and both arms were tied to a bedpost. His family was leaving the room after consulting with the doctor and he was screaming for them to stay or to untie him. The father’s face had such concern on it, that look of concern was the only love the client knew. That look of concern translated to love in my client’s mind.
In this life, the client unwittingly was still trying to get that look of concern from people. He didn’t understand that people can only listen to problems for so long before they shut down. So the way to get that look of concern is to up the ante on the symptoms and unfortunately the pain and discomfort that go along with them.
Here is the EFT tap we used. Actually, there were many, but it boiled down to this:
(Say the statement three times while tapping on your head, and say it a fourth time while tapping on your chest.)
I release using illness to feel loved. in all lifetimes.
For many people, illness is what they use to get love. Most of us use something to get our need for love met. It could be, beauty, intelligence, sex, giving, drama, helping, money, laughter, skills, gossip, superiority, etc. Whatever it is, (it will be healing just knowing what it is) replace that word with illness and do the tap. You may be amazed at how good you feel.