When you talk about anything, you are giving the coördinates of its position in space and time and sending others to it. Then they are a spectator or even an active participant in your story. In this way, many people embed their issues into a permanent reality.
When a tree falls in the forest and no one hears it, it doesn’t make a sound. In the same way, when a lesson is given and learned but is not categorized as a problem, it can fall away easily without creating a chain of reactions that are also categorized as problems.