Love and fear are polar opposites. When someone is afraid of something, it is a lack of love; it is that simple. To deal with fears of any kind, one has to make their love big enough to dissipate the fear. It is as simple and efficient as shining a light into a dark room and dissipating all the shadows.
If one has negative habits, thoughts and feelings that are unhealthy, they are fear based. All judgments and opinions are fear based… a concern about something outside of them interfering with their well-being or state of peace. When one is totally based in love then there is no judgment, only understanding. To arrive at a point of being all-loving, one understands all the experiences that led to that vantage point, and has compassion for every single one of them.
Recently a client was dealing with addictions. She was manifesting experiences that were unhealthy for her. When people use drugs, tobacco, or alcohol, it creates holes in their energy field and it is like an open door to transient energies. That is why it is difficult to quit. What would be helpful is to close the energetic door on influences that seem to be affecting free will and self-empowerment.
It is not done by being fearful but by collecting your self and seeing your self as a whole orb of glowing, vibrant energy that illuminates from the inside. If there are any cracks, seal them up with your loving intention. See yourself whole and perfect. It may be easier to do after finishing these taps:
(Say each statement three times while tapping on your head, and say it a fourth time while tapping on your chest.)
I release harboring transient energies, in all lifetimes.
I release being in sympathy with transient energies, in all lifetimes.
I release being blinded to transient energies, in all lifetimes.
I recant all vows and agreements between myself and all transient energies, in all lifetimes.
I remove all curses between myself and all transient energies, in all lifetimes.
I dissolve all karmic ties between myself and all transient energies, in all lifetimes.
I remove all the pain, burden, and limitations that all transient energies have put on me, in all lifetimes.
I take back all my energy from all transient energies, in all lifetimes.
I transform all transient energies into Divine Love, in all lifetimes.
I heal and fortify my Wei Chi, in all lifetimes.
I transcend all transient energies, in all lifetimes.
I am empowered and imbued with Divine Love, in all lifetimes.