Ten Ways to Make Your Life Better Right Now

  1. Focus on the good things in life and allow the rest to dry up. People need to be trained to do that. Maybe you can help.
  2. Stop listening to negative people just to be polite.
  3. Don’t agree with negative statements.
  4. Only offer thoughtful, uplifting comments to others.
  5. Stop talking about the past and what was. When I help people in a session, they immediately start to tell me about how bad they WERE feeling. I cut them off. It brings the issues back.
  6. Debating isn’t about changing someone else’s mind. It is about one-upping them; creating mind loops. Don’t indulge in it and separate yourself from others who do.
  7. Ignore ALL negative statements. People are on autopilot when they say them anyway. Wait until they say something good, THEN respond. Teach people that all you will accept in your Universe is positive.
  8. Reward people when they are positive. Engage them more. If they turn the conversation to negative issues, disengage.
  9. Instead of asking people How they are doing, get used to asking, ‘What’s good?’ It changes what you will receive.
  10. Call people on their stuff. When someone says they are going through something, respond with something like, ‘We are all going through something. It’s called life.’

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