Old establishments will change when individuals change. That is why I do what I do; to empower individuals. Individuals who are actually empowered are the ones who can change the world. Once they realize it, the change will begin to happen. Not by banding together, but by being strong individuals who are unwavering in their convictions, and who refuse to be bought and sold. Giving power to groups is the old paradigm. Living instinctively in Joy, Love, Abundance, Freedom, and Wholeness is the new paradigm. It is wonderfully liberating to experience the shift into a new paradigm. Seeing so many capable people being disgruntled is like seeing a fruit-laden tree. It is exciting times!
Focus on the good things in life and allow the rest to dry up. People need to be trained to do that. Maybe you can help. Stop listening to negative people just to be polite. Don’t agree with negative statements. Only offer thoughtful, uplifting comments to others. Stop talking about the past and what was. When I help people in a session, they immediately start to tell me about how bad they WERE feeling. I cut them off. It brings the issues back. Debating isn’t about changing someone else’s mind. It is about one-upping them; creating mind loops. Don’t indulge in it and separate yourself from others who do. Ignore ALL negative statements. People are on autopilot when they say them anyway. Wait until they say something good, THEN respond. Teach people that all you will accept in your Universe is positive. Reward people when they are positive. Engage them more. If they turn the conversation to negative issues, disengage. Instead of asking people How they are doing, get used to asking, ‘What’s good?’ It changes what you will receive. Call people on their stuff. When someone says they are going through something, respond with something like, ‘We are all […]
When interacting with others during the day, forget the person who cut you off, or all the people who didn’t smile back at you. Instead, focus on that one person who listened to you, made you feel of value, and were kind. Send that kindness out in your interactions with others. BE that one person to everyone you meet that exudes kindness. Make it a bit easier for others to smile back, wait their turn and perpetuate a selfless intent.
I recently facilitated a session where the client was in the midst of change sweeping through her life. Every aspect of it was affected. From her vantage point, Life was messing with her. This pattern seemed to happen every few years and even though it was exhilarating in some ways, she had grown weary of it. In her session I saw a Phoenix rising out of that ashes. It was as if this was a symbol that she identified with. She seemed to draw inspiration from the symbol. In her past lives I saw her surviving great catastrophe. It wasn’t the devastation that came through as significant but what happened afterwards. Some of her best life times were in the aftermath of great turmoil. This is when the human spirit showed its resiliency to thrive. This is what imprinted upon her and this is what she was recreating in her present life over and over. It was in rebuilding a new life where she felt the most joy and plugged into a purpose. We released a lot of the unconscious behavior around this pattern to free her from creating such turmoil in her life. She left much lighter and exhilarated […]