Many children who are adopted have residual feelings of rejection. I have facilitated sessions where the client was affected by emotional issues that they picked up in-utero. A fetus knows what its mother is feeling about it. It is important for a mother to send loving thoughts to the baby regardless whether she is going to keep it or put it up for adoption. A baby can feel rejection before it is born, especially if the mother was not happy about the prospect of being pregnant.
People who are adopted may romanticize the idea of their birth parents. They may want to be reunited with them. In some rare cases this may happen but in most cases the longing for them seems mute. It really isn’t. Birth parents can love their children from afar. Adopted children can accept that love and try to see it as a positive element instead of something that they have lost.
When we look at our lives from a broader perspective, we can realize that our parents may only be our parents this one lifetime and that whomever we are with is who the Universe arranged for us to be with. We are not inherently unlovable when we are adopted, we are merely experiencing a situation that is meant to strengthen our internal relationship with Love.
Here are some taps that may help:
I release the guilt and trauma of being adopted, in all lifetimes.
I release the void that being adopted created in all lifetimes.
I release the chaos and confusion that was stored in utero, in and between all lifetimes.
I release feeling unworthy, in and between all lifetimes.
I untangle the emotional and mental confusion around the concept of mother, in and between all lifetimes.
I release feeling abandoned, in and between all lifetimes.
I release the belief I was abandoned, in and between all lifetimes.
I release rejecting the intangible Love, in and between all lifetimes.
I accept the Love from my birth parents through inner channels, in and between all lifetimes.
I release being disappointed in my parents, in all lifetimes.
I release invalidating my parents in all lifetimes.
I release feeling cheated out of parents, in all lifetimes.
I shift my paradigm from feeling deficient to Joy, Love, Abundance, Freedom, Life and Wholeness, in all lifetimes.
I shift my paradigm from feeling empty to being satiated with Joy, Love, Abundance, Freedom, Life and Wholeness, in all lifetimes.