When we put expectations on a relationship we set ourselves up for disappointment. We are putting conditions on love. Individuals have limitations that show up obliquely. Each relationship is an intricate maze that we brooch with different pacing and tactics. If every maze was similar, there would be less adventure.
The packet of mazes that we are given during a lifetime suit us best for our spiritual growth. To wish a lover, sibling, friend or boss act typically is believing there are unified standard for the mazes in our packet. There are not. It is our lesson to be accepted or not; into the heart of the mazes in our packet with tenaciousness, respect and with no preconceived notions.