When we seek sympathy, we are asking others to help us mute our dynamic vibratory rate to one of very low frequency on the survival scale. The more dynamic we are, the more effort it will take to keep us “down”. We are like an inner-tube under water in that; it will take a lot of effort to keep us from rising to the top. So we seek help.
Here is the cycle. We start out really dynamic and vibrating at a very uplifting level. Others see us as different so they pull us down to their level or below. We get used to that vibration and identify with it so we have to find ways to stay at that lower frequency. Groups of communities, families and societies use each other to keep their vibratory rate at a certain level. Individuals rise to the top.
People who know me know that I refuse to give sympathy. I refuse to agree with a lower vibratory rate than that of pure joy, love, abundance and freedom. If someone seeks my help, I will not allow them to manipulate me into seeing them as less than whole and free.
Instead, I validate them by asking on an energetic level, what we need to do to get this individual to vibrate closer to their original state. That is what happens in a session.