I facilitated a session recently with a client who is very agreeable. But in her voice, was an irritating quality that was off-putting. One of her issues was that other people got irritated with her and she didn’t understand why. She went out of her way to be nice.
During her session, I presented a deep understanding about herself to her. She accepted this truth as if she already knew it; which she did not. It was a clue into the dynamics that play out in her everyday life.
In this life, her father is a lawyer. She learned early that she was not going to win an argument with him. Her way of coping was to agree. Saying yes was a way to placate others and to keep them from inundating her.
Here are some EFT taps that may help someone who uses “yes” too much:
(say each statement three times while tapping your head and a fourth time while tapping your chest)
I release using “yes” as a fortress. in all lifetimes.
I release the fear of saying “no”, in all lifetimes.
I release confusing speaking my truth with creating chaos, in all lifetimes.
I release associating chaos with death, in all lifetimes.
I release sacrificing my truth to placate others, in all lifetimes.
I release the trauma of being tortured for my truth, in all lifetimes.