Problems are like feathers. One or two are light enough and we think nothing of holding them for others. But when they start to pile on, they can get heavier and heavier. It is best if we are going to listen to them, to let them blow away right afterwards.
But when we think about them, or worse, discuss them with others, or dwell on them, it is like syrup that causes them to stick to us. Some people walk around carrying a whole pie of feathers and if you try to tell them, they will think that you are being ridiculous because one feather is so light.
It gets to the point that people can tell the feather carriers and know where to take all their extra feathers. The kinder thing to do is for everyone to send their problems in the wind and release them to dissolve into Love and Light.