Two of my clients are married to each other. Their sessions many times involve each other. They both have committed this lifetime to the spiritual goal of working off all their karma. It is an intense undertaking. In youth, everything is fueled with a wonderment and a zealousness that strokes life with a broad brush. It is a noble endeavor for a couple to maintain their commitment to each other when passion wanes to contentment.
In their individual sessions, I am shown how each pushes the other one’s buttons. On the surface, to onlookers, I imagine a relationship of many years may look cantankerous or apathetic. I got a beautiful glimpse of the commitment level of this couple. Through them I was shown the incredible depth, endurance, and selflessness of Divine Love.
This couple has been together for many lifetimes. It may seem like they would want to part ways. But this couple is committed to nudging each other closer to the heart of love. When they are annoying each other, they are uncovering pockets of issues that need to be released for each to be closer to God. They are in effect, spotting each other for remnants of ego that still need addressing. Once a core issue is revealed, the individual can look at it in its entirety and release it. The goal is spiritual freedom.
In a recent session, this beautiful parallel was uncovered between the wife’s relationship with her husband and her relationship with God. The husband was reflecting to her, her dynamics in her relationship with God. When she felt she was being dismissed by her husband, she really felt she was being dismissed by God.
Here are some EFT taps that I gave her to assist:
(Say each statement three times while tapping your head, and say it a fourth time while tapping your chest.)
I release being invalidated by my spouse, in all lifetimes.
I release being invalidated by God, in all lifetimes.
I release being ignored by my spouse, in all lifetimes.
I release being ignored by God, in all lifetimes.
I release being unloved by my spouse, in all lifetimes.
I release being unloved by God, in all lifetimes.
Technique: Uncover the underlying issues between yourself and your dynamics with your spouse. These are the things that you believe need to change between the two of you for you to be happy. . Articulate them and formulate a tap to do, to release that issue. After you have done the tap, replace the word God for the word spouse and do it the tap again. Do this with as many issues as you can reveal to yourself. You will be removing the barriers between yourself and your spouse and removing the barriers between yourself and God.